Monday, January 9, 2012

What can I do to be better today?

I think that an important part of marriage - and life - is to wake up each day and ask yourself "What can I do to be better today?" What can I do to be a better wife? To show my love? To appreciate him? What can I do to be better at work? To reach out to more people? To be a better daughter? Friend? What can I do to touch someone today?

I challenge all of us to not settle...Not to settle in our marriage. In our jobs. With our friends. With our family. In our Christian walk. But to always be looking for little ways to be a little more. To do a little more. To encourage someone a little more.

 

Send a text of encouragement. 

Write an email to someone you haven't talked to in a while...and tell them what you miss about them. 

Call someone and actually have a conversation.

Put an expo marker in the bathroom...and write your husband/children/wife notes of encouragement. 

Put a note in your husband's lunch. Just to say thanks for working so hard.

Talk to someone you normally just walk past.

Have dinner with an old friend. Or a new friend.

Visit your grandma. 

Send someone a link to "your song". The one that always made you laugh. Or cry. The one that takes you back. 

Send a letter in the mail. Or just a card to tell someone you're thinking of them.

Smile at those you walk by.

Say nice things when you think of them. Don't let a compliment go unsaid. 

Share God's love and plan of salvation with someone (I'm still working on this one myself).

Wear your husband's favorite outfit, watch his favorite movie, or actually play video games with him (again, I don't do this as much as I should).

When a person crosses your mind take a minute to say hello.

Pray for someone. Really pray for them. 

Dance with your husband in the kitchen.

Send him an encouraging - and sexy - text message. 

Think of personal - and creative - new ways to share your love with your husband (or anyone).

Buy someone something...just because. (Something inexpensive but personal). 

These are just a few ideas of simple ways to be an encouragement. Pick one or two to do this week - it will encourage you just as much as it does the other person.  


 

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Once upon a time...again and again.

Is there such thing as reading too many books at one time? 

Or having too many devotions?

I am currently in the middle of a year devotion about the Women of the Bible. I love it. And each entry is pretty short - so I learn a little more each day about these women. Some well-known. Some I've never heard of before.

I just started my 90 day study of David. We're currently learning about Hannah and Samuel - which is great...but I'm ready to get to the heart of David!

I'm also - as my hobby - reading more Beverly Lewis. Francis Rivers is next.

And I have an amazon gift card. So I'm thinking of getting Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World and/or 52 Ways to Wow Your Husband.

I just want to read it all. Get to know the characters. Get lost in the stories. There are so many great books out there...I can't stick with just one.


There's a reason this is my favorite scene in this movie.


I love the library scenes in this movie. And how she reads to the sheep! 
And, yes, there are many books that I've read more than twice.

Oh, and one more thing while we're on the subject...GO TO THE LIBRARY. Books there are FREE. Crazy, right? People laugh, because I still make frequent trips to the library. Don't knock it. I love it. The thrill of discovering new books. And, oh yeah, It saves me lots of money.


I had to add this video for my husband. And because it makes me laugh. 


Add some more to my list. 
What is your favorite book? Devotion? Marriage book? Fiction? 
What do I need to add to the list next?